frequently asked
Questions and Answers

We understand that becoming a foster carer is a big decision and we're sure that you'll have lots of questions. Our FAQ page is here to address the most commonly asked questions we receive.

General FAQs

  • Gender identify or sexual orientation does not affect your eligibility to foster. Members of the LGBTQ+ community can and do foster children. At CFC, we welcome and support foster carers from all backgrounds, including those who are LGBTQ+. What matters most is providing a loving, stable, and supportive environment for children in need.                    

  • Despite this being a common belief, unemployment does not hinder your prospects of fostering. Instead, it may be beneficial to your fostering application, as it suggests you will have time to prioritise a young person.  Foster parents receive an allowance to help cover the costs associated with caring for a foster child. This financial support can help cover the cost of expenses related to food, clothing, education, and other necessities. 

  • Your relationship status does not affect your fostering application. What is taken into consideration is your ability to put the child’s needs at the forefront.  

    The goal of foster care is to meet the needs of the child. Single foster parents can offer the love, attention, and stability that foster children require. We assess each applicant's ability to provide a supportive home environment, focusing on the quality of care rather than the applicant's relationship status. At CFC more than a third of foster carers are single. 

  • Whilst you do need to provide a stable and safe space for your fostered child, this does not necessarily mean you have to own your own home.  Whether you rent or own your home, as long as you can meet the child's needs and offer a supportive environment, you can be a successful foster carer. 

     

  • It is essential to have a spare bedroom to foster a child, as one of the key requirements for a young person is ensuring that they have a safe and secure place they can call their own. However, your house does not have to be large  to allow a child to flourish – instead, the stability of your home is what is taken into consideration, rather than the physical size of your living space. 

  • Whilst there is a younger age limit of 21, there is no upper limit on age. The assessment focusses on whether you are mentally and physically fit enough to fulfil a child’s needs. Mature individuals bring a wealth of life experience, patience, and wisdom to the role of foster parenting, which can be incredibly beneficial for children in need. 

  • Having a pet won’t prevent you from fostering a child. Many foster families have pets, and they’re actually thought to encourage a level of responsibility and care into a foster child’s life.  There will be guidelines regarding the safety of your pet. For instance, you will need to be able to prove that your pet is clean, healthy and is well adapted to interacting with children. 

  • You don’t have to drive but you are required to have a good transport network, so you are able to fully meet the needs of the child.  Access to reliable public transportation, will enable you to carry out duties such as the school run, attend appointments, review meetings, family time with birth parents and anything else required. Having a strong support system can help alleviate any potential challenges associated with not driving. 

  • The process to becoming a foster carer takes time and involves several steps, including an initial enquiry, initial visit, application, assessment and approval. Time frames can vary and can generally take between 3 – 6 months. This time allows for careful assessment and matching of families with children. 

  • Yes, you can work and foster. Your ability to provide adequate care and attention to the foster child while managing your job will be taking into consideration during the assessment process however many foster parents successfully balance their careers with their fostering responsibilities. 

    According to the Fostering Network, almost 40% of foster parents in the UK work whilst fostering. 

  • Fostering is often used to provide temporary care for children whose birth families are unable to do, with an aim to reuniting the child with their biological family or finding a permanent solution. Adoption is permanent legal commitment that establishes a lifelong parent-child relationship. 

  • This would be discussed with the Local Authority and the child's social worker before a child is placed with you. Where possible we support children to enjoy holidays with their foster carers, however there will be important considerations and steps that will need to be followed. 

    Where it is not possible to take the child or young person on holiday, CFC offer 14-night short breaks and would support this within our agency where possible.   

  • A new baby will not stop you from fostering, but what will be determined is your ability to take care of the young person, alongside your new baby. It is important, as a foster carer, that you are not overwhelmed with too much responsibility. 

  • Community Foster Care spends considerable time on the matching process to ensure the well-being and stability of both the child and the foster family. As part of this exercise, your assessing social worker will discuss with you, the age, sex and number of children you would like to foster. This would then be reflected on during assessment with a recommendation then made to panel. 

  • Taking antidepressants or having mental health issues will not prevent you from fostering. Everyone struggles at some point in their life, and what is important is how you manage these challenges and your receptiveness to receiving support. Each application is assessed individually, considering your overall health and ability to provide a stable, nurturing environment.  

    Having mental health issues does not automatically rule you out. The primary concern is the well-being and safety of the foster child, so as long as you can provide a nurturing and secure home, taking antidepressants should not be a barrier. We will  sit down with you and thoroughly explore your physical and metal wellbeing to determine whether this is the right time for you to foster.

  • Having a disability or medical issue does not necessarily determine your ability to foster. However, the nature of your condition will be taken into consideration to ensure it does not inhibit your ability to care for a young person. This matching process is crucial to align the needs of the young person with your abilities, ensuring the best possible care and support. 

     

  • Being a smoker won’t prevent you from becoming a foster parent, but it may present some additional considerations and requirements to ensure the safety and well-being of the foster child.  For example, smoking inside the home, car, or in the presence of the child is prohibited and you will be unable to care for a child under five years old and/or any child that could be affected by smoking.  

  • Offences against children and sexual offences will preclude you from becoming a foster carer, however a criminal record does not necessarily disqualify you. The scale and nature of the offence and the time that has elapsed since the conviction are all factors considered during your assessment n process.  

    To ensure the safety and well-being of the children in your care, a Disclosure and Barring Service (DBS check will be conducted for you and any individuals in your support network.  

Training/Qualifications FAQs

  • No prior qualifications are needed to begin your fostering journey. When you are preparing to foster you will receive training to help you and your family identify and build upon the skills you already have, and develop new skills needed to foster.           

  • At CFC you will be fully supported to complete our Therapeutic Fostering Qualification.  We believe in the potential of individuals who are eager to grow and develop, and we are keen to hear from people who share our passion for making a positive impact in the lives of children and young people. 

  • Ongoing learning and development for our foster carers is just one of the ways our community helps children and young people to realise their ambitions and dreams. 

    All our foster carers are offered regular training on various subjects throughout the year. Training programmes are put together following discussions with foster carers and our staff. We also look at the training needs of the Foster Care Panel and Trustees who oversee Community Foster Care. 

     Learn more our training opportunities 

Financial FAQs

  • Foster carers receive fees and allowances for each child placed in their care. As a foster carer, much of your time will be dedicated to supporting and creating a safe environment for your foster child – which is why a fostering allowance is provided to support you. The amount of financial support can vary depending on factors such as the age and needs of the child, the region or country you are fostering in, and any specific circumstances related to the child's care. 

  • Foster carers are considered self-employed. This classification applies because foster carers are not considered employees of the agency. Once approved as a foster carer, you must register as self-employed with HMRC. As self-employed individuals, foster carers may be responsible for managing their own taxes, maintaining records of expenses related to fostering, and complying with any local regulations or requirements for self-employment. 

  • All fostering households are exempt from paying tax on the first £18,140 earnt from fostering. On top of this, they are also eligible for tax relief on some of their earnings over £18,140 for every week or part-week they have a child in care. 

    Lean more about fostering payments 

  • Yes you can still foster if you are on benefits, this will be taken into consideration during the assessment process. You'll still be able to claim certain benefits when you become a foster parent however individual circumstances and the type of fostering you undertake may affect which benefits you then qualify for.  

  • Becoming a foster carer may affect the benefits you receive. If you’re claiming benefits, you’ll need to tell the organisation that pays you that you’re also receiving a fostering allowance. Check the benefits calculator to see what you are eligible for. 

Therapeutic Fostering FAQs

  • Therapeutic fostering is a type of fostering, designed to support children and young people who have experienced significant trauma, abuse, or neglect and require a nurturing, stable environment where they can receive additional therapeutic support.  

    This type of fostering aims to create a supportive space that fosters the child's emotional and psychological well-being, helping them build resilience and thrive. 

    Community Foster Care is a trauma responsive organisation, and we believe that all interactions are an opportunity for intervention and learning. 

    Learn more about Therapeutic Community Fostering and our approach. 

Any other questions?

If you have any additional questions about becoming a foster carer, or anything related to fostering, our team are always here to help.